Sunday, November 8, 2009

how can we be happy?

hey guys, sorry for not bloggin for some time...i noe i noe...lol

but anyway, today i hv something to ask u readers^^

how can u be happie?

recently alot of stuff hv happened around me and ppl hv always been emo nemo...

hmmm, this sort of makes me wonder why?? i know GOD made emotions for a reason..

and i know emotions are important, at times we really need to release it out.

but wat are the pros and cons of revealing ure emotions?

pros:
  • u will feel alot better
  • u wont undergo depression
  • its a necessity
  • it helps u to recharge ure emotions in a way
  • emotions are a part of GOD's gift
  • bla bla bla (the list can go on forever.......)
cons:
  • u make the people around u emo coz its contagious!
  • u made someone's day go real bad
  • u are just suffering ureself
  • u are drowned in self pity
  • u are hurtin the people around you
  • wasting time
  • wasting tears
  • wasting precious emo-tions
  • ITS ALL ABOUT YOU (selfish)
saying tht, i myself is guilty of being emo at times.. like wat i said, emotions are a part of life, life's necessities. so i am not sayin here tht emo is BAD or emo is NO good. its a GOOD way to express ure frustrations and all, tht is y GOD gave us emotions!!! let me hear a hurray!!^^ (hurray!!!)

but den wat are the consequences of emo-ness???

i hv clearly listed them out. let me tell u a lil story here.

once upon a time, there was a lil boy tht was wondering around the town. every sunday, he would just walk around the town and knock on people's door and wish them a happie day. so one day, when he was knockin on this very old looking door. he waited very long before an old lady came out to greet the boy.

so when the lady came out, the boy greeted the lady and wished her a good day with a big wide smile. the lady at first was just stading by the doorstep, looking at the young boy. out of a sudden, the lady burst into tears and hugged the young boy and thanking him for his greetings and warm smile. the boy was confused, but he went to the next hse anyway.

a week later, he received a letter from a stranger with a very baeutiful stamp on it. upon opening the letter, the youn boy found out tht the sender was actualy the old woman tht he greeted last week. in the letter, the old lady expressed her gratitude towards the young boy for wat he had done. in fact the old lady was planning to kill herself coz of the many debts and the cold eye tht she has been gettin. she felt tht the world is a place of no love and complete darkness.

but at tht point whe she was prepared to take her own life, the smile of tht young boy gave her hope and she felt the warmth of he world once again. thus, she decided to live her life to the most of it.

the lesson from this story is tht, in this world, there will always be a point in life where we feel the lowest or shit, but den u might not know wat a simple smile or a greetin can do. emotions will always come down to a choice, choosing to be happy and share tht or choose to be emotional or sad and spread tht.

a smile will always make the world a better place. so wat i wannatell all my frens and loved ones is tht no matter how shitty u feel, choose to smile and u will NVR know the impact tht u hv left.

"the greatest moments in life are not given to u by other ppl but a choice by ureself. if u choose to live it all out and feel good, life is always good."